Brian Pray - Helping people improve their lives!


Who is Brian Pray?

	That is a good question and I’ve been looking for the answers all my life.

	I typically like to break that down into three sections:

		1. Who was Brian Pray? (where I came from) 2. Who is Brian Pray? (where I am at right now) 3. Who will Brian Pray be? (where I am going)

	So let’s start at the beginning.

Who was Brian Pray?

	I was an ordinary guy who absolutely loved life when I was younger. I had the world at my finger tips and life was great. I was an above average student, an excellent athlete and popular. I had everything going for me. So, maybe I was a little naïve, but hey- ignorance is bliss, right? Well, somewhere along the way I lost myself. I lost the happy-go-lucky guy who knew that no matter what happened- things would work out. I can’t pinpoint the moment (and maybe it was gradual, I don’t know), but somewhere along the line I became miserable. Even though I seemingly had it all: the beautiful wife, the adorable children, the perfect family, the successful career and living at the beach; I just wasn’t happy. I was depressed and I needed to make a change. I knew what the problem was. It was me. Yes, work was terrible and the root of my problem but I was the one who was letting all of these feelings consume who I was. Even worse, I was bringing it home and that wasn’t fair to anyone in my family, including me. I had never been fond of Corporate America and I made a decision that I would find something that would allow me to take control of my future. I would be my own boss. But how was I going to do this? I was the sole supporter for my family of five. I couldn’t just up and quit my job to pursue this venture. I needed to find something that could give me everything I wanted and allow me to do it while I still worked. So, the journey began. I spent months-and-months doing research online. It was frustrating and the most difficult thing was that I really didn’t even know what I was looking for. I didn’t know anything about the needle I was searching for and what was worse was that it was in a seemingly endless haystack. I looked into franchises but the cost and time demand was just too great. Then I remembered reading something in a Robert Kiyosaki book about his thoughts on Network Marketing. How he would choose this as his starting point in business if he ever had to do it all over again. I figured that he was where I wanted to be so I might as well listen to his advice. So it was going to be Network Marketing, Direct Sales or Multi-Level Marketing (MLM) for me. But where should I begin? I decided that rather than look for a company, I would look for leadership. I knew that I was going to need the guidance and education to become successful in this arena. It wasn’t a natural fit for me so finding a good mentor was absolutely crucial (even more so than the specific opportunity). After a long search I found my mentor. I was really going to do this.

Who is Brian Pray?

	So now I knew what I was going to do so the question became: “How can I juggle it all? The job, the family and now the new business venture.” I won’t lie, for me it’s hard. With three children under the age of five (a four year-old and one year-old twins), a wife and a full time job, it doesn’t leave much free time. But I am a man on a mission now. I have a purpose that gets me excited. I may not be free of my job just yet, but I will be- SOON. UPDATE - UPDATE - UPDATE: Life is great. I have been able to leave my corporate job and now work from the comfort of my home (or wherever I may be traveling). It is an amazing feeling to be able to fire your boss. Click Here To See How I Did It! NOTE: I have left the remainder of this section because it helps to capture the feelings I had as I was entering this new era in my life. For the first time, in a long time, I am really excited about where I am going and what I will be doing. Yes, there are days that I still let the bad feelings from work creep back in, but I know they won’t last. It isn’t hopeless anymore. There is a light, a brilliant light at the end of my tunnel. I am also a different person now. I have learned to take a much more positive outlook on life and with that I have been able to focus a lot of energy to helping others. I have donated more money this year than I ever have before- not because I have more but because I understand more. More importantly, I have even dedicated my time and done charitable fundraisers. I think this point ends up becoming the most inspiring aspect about what I am doing now. I have found an opportunity that will change my life forever and in ways that I may not even be able to comprehend just yet. But the thing that excites me the most is that I can share this opportunity with others. There is nothing like the feeling of being able to help someone. I know that more now than ever. The thought of me being able to help someone take control of their life again, to get the TIME, FREEDOM & WEALTH that they deserve, to start dreaming again and to get all the things they want out of life truly inspires and excites me. My goals used to be about myself and my financial future. Now they are about other people and how I can help them- knowing full well that by helping others I will also help myself. This is who I am, right now (and I love it).

Who will Brian Pray be?

	I will be the Dad who can chaperone all of my children’s field trips. I will be the Dad who never has to miss a game or recital. I will be the Dad who can coach the sports teams. I will be the Dad who will be home every night to help with homework. I will be the Dad who will not miss out on my children’s lives. I will be the Dad who can take his children all over the world to let them experience things rather than just reading about them. I will be the husband who can be attentive to my wife and give her the time that she deserves. I will be the husband who can take my wife on our honeymoon over-and-over again. I will be the husband who will make my wife’s dreams come true. I will be the guy who makes a difference. Not just in his life, but in the lives of many. I will be the guy that when people say, “Hey, do you know Brian Pray?” People will answer, “Yes, and he helped me change my life.” (And they’ll be proud of that.) I will be the guy who is happy, like when he was a little kid. When dreams were all we knew and they were real. I will be the guy who gets paid what I am worth rather than what a job is worth. I will be the guy who is in control of his life.
	That is who I will be.